A couple years ago I met a couple of brothers (early 20's) who had so
many adventures to tell. They had met so many interesting people and had
done so many crazy things in their life. As I sat and listened to them
tell stories, I was getting kind of bummed out. Here they were in their
early 20's with a bunch of adventures already in their lives. Here I
was, a 30+ year old housewife (not that there is a single thing wrong
with that - I love my job of housewife) and a mother of two. I was somewhat quiet/shy and hadn't done
a whole lot of exciting things. What adventures could I possibly have
in my life?!
As I got to talking with the brothers, I asked how
they had managed to do so many neat things in their life. Turns out that
these boys rarely said "no" when an adventure came knocking on their
door. How many things had I said "no" to because I was unsure or
insecure? When your life has been plagued by anxiety (see this blog) you say "no" to, well, almost everything.
When I got home, my mindset
has changed. I was ready for adventures! Granted, I could not take a
spontaneous road trip across the country. I had a family depending on me.
But I didn't find that dependence limiting. I just decided to go with the life I
had and make it more exciting (to me, anyway!)
I started out
with a "40 before 40" list. It's a list of all the things I'd like to do
before I turn 40. I've got some major goals on that list! But some
little ones too: shoot a gun for the first time, run a 5k (done plus
some!), learn to skateboard, eat Thai food. Those kinds of things. Things that just make life more interesting!
My
perspective on many things have changed. I like meeting new people.
Everyone's got a story to tell. Everyone is interesting for some reason
or another. When people ask me to try something new, I'm not scared
(unless it has to do with very high places or small enclosed spaces
because, shucks, those things are just plain frightening and anxiety-inducing!)
These
days I take more chances, I take more risks. (For Pete's sake: I've
started a blog with many of my innermost thoughts and let all my friends on facebook know about it: risky!)
I've learned a lot from other people. I have stuff to talk about in
conversations. I've made some neat memories. And you know what? I'm
starting to think that maybe I'm an interesting person, too!
One
of the neatest outcomes of all this is I don't shy away from my faith
as much as I use to. It's a huge part of my life (actually, my life is
run by my faith so I guess it is my life). (Not to say that my faith is
always evident, but I'm trying). (Should I put something else in
parenthesis since I've already overused them in this paragraph?) (Nah).
Getting
back to my point: it's now easier to talk about God. He's asked us to trust
Him, talk about Him (plant the seed) and He'll do the rest! I know
I've got a long way to go before I'll be witnessing like He wants me to,
but I've decided not to be afraid but to be more bold
What about you? What risks are you going to
take this week? Have you made your 40 before 40 list? Who have you been
afraid to talk to?
KC
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